"My W, will not discuss anything about the OM, so I don't know what is going on still."

You should find out.

"You see my biggest worry is giving her an ultimatum and Not having the financial means to back it up, if it doesn't go my way."

You should already be thinking about this.

Has she had any physical contact with you at all?

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER