I guess we have "Irreconcilable Differences"

[NYCPeter]

Hi everyone -

I guess I'm doing fine, been divorced over 2 months now.
Still have problems completely detaching (how can I say that when I'm divorced).

Work is still very busy - so I've not needed to fill the void with other activities - I still play soccer and golf when I can but haven't met any new people or started new activities.

I am seeing a lot of the girls which is great - my Ex has been very good about me seeing the girls in her time and switching times when I have an event.

Ex is still cordial but business like. I dropped the girls off yesterday - she chatted to D7 about the weekend while I was unloading the car. The only comment to me was "where are the checks" - meaning child / spousal support, I couldn't help myself - I just shook my head and said they are in the bags. Yes I know, I should have just smiled and explained where they were.

I partially signed up for a dating site (never completed the profile) - did a search locally and saw my Ex was on there. Her A is obviously over - she told a mutual friend that she is "heart-broken", our friend said that it's never too late - she said it wasn't about me, it was about her boyfriend. Really didn't need to hear that - but I guess my friend was trying to help me move on.

So all in all - I think about her less every day, I still wish I was married - but that will gradually go. In the meantime - keep myself busy and find myself a new lady friend

Peace everyone.