IH Separation-continuing to grow as we grow apart

[breakdownbill]

Hi Bond

My boundaries were broken months ago, but at the time I was to weak to enforce them.

My W knows how I feel about her continuing to gave contact with the OM and right now I need to focus on my teacher training and getting a job.

Until I've acheived these 2 goals I don't feel like I could back up any ultimatum.

If it didn't go my way, I can't afford to file let alone the legal costs.

It's the only thing stopping me now from doing this.

Maybe you're right, the longer it goes on the worse it gets, but I do need to make sure my M issues don't get in the way of my teacher training - this is my future, no matter what happens.

Bill