I agree with LITB and JB. I also agree with Chatter.

Another idea may be to tell her that you are trying to save the money to have an attorney review that paperwork. That you don't feel comfortable doing without a lawyer's input. This would buy you more time, hopefully put the paperwork on the backburner for a while longer, and also put your W on notice that you aren't going to just go along with her plan to D you.

Kinda thinking out loud, but I think that I would consider that ^^.


M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce