You know I have to chime in here. JB you are right, when my ex told me that we needed to separate, because she needed some space, I asked her about an OM and she stated that was not the case. But wait , I ended up finding out that there was an OM all along, so once we identify someone as a WAS then we need to heed MWD's advice about believing nothing of what they say and only half of what we see. I wish I could have done that.....Stay focused on yourself WHG. You are a great person and will continue to get better.
