Thx. Bond, but I do want to correct a few things about the SIL.
I didn't throw her under the bus. Yes she is a physician, but not a pediatrician (OB-GYN), but she (my SIL) told that she was freaked out by the seizure. She probably would have taken him to the ED, but she had my other cousins with her. I didn't say one word to her or my brother about it. My wife wasn't so much mad that it happened how it did, but that she felt like people were ignoring her concerns as a mother. Every medical professional I talked too outside of my family said he should have gone to the ED. When I talked about family support I was talking more about physical location not emotional distance. We both live 2000 miles from our families.
I agree on the second part 100% and will look at the site.
Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet. --Jean Jacques Rousseau.