Tomorrow is a New Day

[hopefulinga]

My Codependent No More came in today. I may put the DB book aside and see what this has to offer. And then see if I can merge the two. This book may help open my eyes to some more of the problems and help me to set some goals and 180s. I already see something in there about being the rescuer.

I also thought back to what my friend said about how I ask my husband for help and end up letting him control my actions or behaviors. I don't think I realized that before she said it. Maybe my take charge attitude on some things is a way that I make up for the fact that H pretty much controls what I do and when I do it by virture of his behavior and/or willingness to help around the house.