While we can't mention specifics here, look up the writings of Jim Conway and his late wife Sally Conway. There's also Al Turtle, Joe Beam and others. I'd also look up reading about living with a depressed spouse.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.