Harrier: I haven't had time to read through your story and obvioulsy im kind of a rookie here, but it seems as though you two have had some growth...mind you it looks like 2 forward 1 1/2 back but thats still growth nonetheless. I think that MC is absolutely the way to go, it sounds like your past experience was with someone who wasn't solution-focused. Maybe thats what you need to find, someone to help you move forward not who is so concerned with digging up all the old. Obviously you have to go back some to understand the problems, but you sound like you need someone to help you going forward.
