My one good friend went through a rough divorce and hasn't taken it too well. We talk often and he understands but he a little bitter about what happened to him.
Most of my other close friends can't relate or just pass it off like ... screw her, it's over. Move on. She's worthless. She's a this or that. Not really good stuff.
They're trying to be supportive of you in the way that they know how. Understand that many of us here have seen many sitches including our own, and the DB coaches many many times more.