I don't feel loved. It's more like we are roommates. I know he is still getting over the affair ...I get no apology...rude.
This is, unfortunately, part of the mlc while H works through whatever it is he is working through. I felt the same way. It will pass, like all things...how long to wait? That is totally up to you. In my case, I am seeing enough effort and some progress with W working through her issues, so I can keep going after a year of "hardcore" mlc (3-4 if include phase 1 mlc "lite")...but that is MY choice.
We always have a choice...to be fair, 10 months ago I couldn't see lasting this long, but I have. You will be amazed at the strength and patience you have deep within if you choose to access it. But you don't have to, and there is nothing wrong with that either...
Hope this helps a wee bit.
T^2
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
