Yes Chatter, a TON of things need to be done by her... I'll make the path home as smooth as possible, but I certainly won't be driving her down it... I'll make sure it's smooth, well lit, and has plenty of signs, but she needs to CHOOSE to follow the path without any pushing from me... Besides, if I have to push her down the path, I'll never be able to be confident that she wanted to go down it in the first place.