Can't hold a good woman down...Take me as I am...

[RoRoinMD]

Hang in there Ro. My W and I both had wonderful grandmothers, so I know how you feel. It's sad, but I can always imagine my GM telling me "Don't be moping about me, I had a good life. Now how about you get your head on straight and focus on what's important!" She might call me 4 different names before she said "BD" but she'd eventually get it Enjoy the movie....and smile...it helps

LOL! My grandmother used to call my sis and I everybody else's name first. She'd get to us at like #5 or #6. LOL

Thanks for your post. My grandmother "Muh" would also say the same thing. It made me smile just thinking about it.

Hope you have a good week Ro. Don't let the slip in attitude take you down. Its part of being human. Recognize it, learn from it and move on. Just like you said, its a lot less frequent than it use to be but I can't imagine any of us will ever be fully free of a backslide once in a while.

What movie are you going to see?

Thanks for checking in ces. You know I have a problem being a regular person. I put way too much pressure on myself to be happy and all that, when in fact, I wasn't most of the time. I'm learning it's okay to be sad sometimes. Just sit with it, figure out why, and move on.

Did you share how you were feeling with H?

Ha! You know me too well. Of course I didn't say a word. Just sat with my sadness by myself. I almost went to him once but told myself I didn't want his "fake" pity or hugs. Yeah, I know. Sunday was a BAD day. Thinking back on it, I wish I had though. I keep so much to myself. That is one of his issues with me (although, he does the same thing). It's getting old carrying all this stuff around. I've let go of some, but not all. Just means, there's still work to do.

Btw, we both ended up taking naps, so we missed the movie, and we didn't see anyting OnDemand that we liked. But...I found 4 movie tickets I had misplaced this morning, so now we can go see 2 free movies. So that worked out!