Month 3 no movement

[Arsene]

I hate to tell you this Carnac because someone might refer me to it later.

I was married once before and when my 1st W left me (yes, this is beginning to look like a pattern and this is why I'm so serious about working on ME), I was devastated and thought just as you did now. The thing is, in the years that have passed, since I met my current W, I have looked at my 1st W leaving me as a blessing.

Now only because my present W outshone my 1st W (this may seem true but it's not fair on 1st W) but she helped me redefine what I wanted in a life partner and made me look at life in a whole different way. This is why I'm here now, fighting for her but the point of this is, it's a big world and there area many people in it. The odds that out of 6 billion people, you met THE only one for you are very slim. Hell, even in your city of XXXXXX population there are many women who would rewrite what your concept of a life partner is.

Nonetheless, I think it's a bit too early to start talking about finding someone else. Don't we all have marriages to save? Selves to better? Families to patch up? Back to work Freshmen!!!