Finally caught up on your thread. What a journey mate! It looks like you are taking control over your life and the changes in you are having an effect. Keep up the good work. don't pick up that rope.
Just a comment I have about your Ws unwillingness to drop OM her dance partner. My W is a singer/musician and a few years ago, when I discovered EA (with the drummer of her band), I put my foot down and told her that if she wanted us to stay together she had to quit the band. She fought it like crazy, often saying that she was fine with us splitting up, and it took so much for me to convince her to quit the band. She eventually did and broke off all contact with OM (We left the country). I thought we were out of the wood but the second we got back in this country (over a year later), VLAM!! BD and the she's back with OM although at BD she said that she could never be with any man other than me.
Back in those days, she would explain that the band was the best around and that OM was the best drummer and all of that but I now believe that there was a strong emotional attachment between them (which one might call love) and that the fact that it remained unexplored back then, drove her back to see what she had missed. Now she's caught in it, and I think she believes she's gone too far to come back.
I see a bit of this in your W. JMO
Freshman Class of 2012
M-49 W-42 1D-10 T 10 YEARS M 9 YEARS EA/MLC 07/2010 Separation 28/05/2012 PA confirmed 31/07/12 W Asked for D 31/07/12 D on and off the table since then
