Kimmerz, Actually it's not punishment...it's something familiar and he does it out of habit. Also, it's his way of keeping the coummunication line going w/you....it's the last string to the apron that you are wearing of his past. Yes, it's very rude when he doesn't respond back, so I wouldn't send him any texts unless it is an absolute emergency or the children's time w/him changes. If he is texting the children, they can tell him what they are doing w/their lives for now.
It's all part of the mlc world...don't put another thought into it because it's crazymaking.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
