It helped. I think I'd do as you did if I were at that stage in my sitch. Where I am now, W is still done. She hasn't paused long enough to reconsider. If she did, I believe I would go that way, to make sure that she is serious and that I don't get hurt or taken advantage of.
For now, I still need to give her a taste of what she's walking out on. I'd like her to take a peek into my new life. Remember, I have been in limbo for a few months and the life I'm starting now (job, house, etc...) is all new. I'd want her to have a chance to notice for a bit.
Thanks again for your time mate!
trust your instincts. Not trying to convince you to do anything.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
