Mrs D - Maybe she's just a rebound... usually guys will latch right on to someone new because they are hurting and they need their ego and whatever else stroked. I know it stinks but that's the reality. It must really hurt, but perhaps it will help you to detach and move on.
You need to stop texting him. You are pursuing and it's not attractive. Let him be and let him come back to you. If she's really such a floozy he's going to lose interest in her in a few months anyway. Just hope he doesn't get her preggo. All this texting and desperation is NOT the new you that you want him to see!
I went to see "Celeste and Jesse Forever" tonight as I was feeling sorry for myself. It was 5 pm, my H and kids were not home from the party that they went to (I was asked not to attend), and I thought to myself that I needed to not be home when they got home. So I went out. I thought of you while I was watching the movie. It is about a couple who really do love each other and have a wonderful bond, but they end up divorcing. Funny, touching, sad. You will cry but you might feel some hope too.
Hugs. Now that you are so mad at X start trying to detach.
Me54, H53 M 23, T 25 S20, S18 BD: April 2024 Moved out: August 2024
Love means not giving up on someone even if they've given up on you.
"Being right is the booby prize of life." - Susan Page
