Suppo, I feel for you man!!!I don’t want to discount anyone, because this is tough on ALL our kids. I am so sorry your kids have had to deal with the confusion, , I am sincerely sorry!
What a complete different mindsets W and I have, she calls and leaves me a vm saying our daughter is not listening to her. W wants me to call her back so I can talk to D that’s almost 5 and discipline her over the phone because she’s not listening to W. This is right after W had a 4 day break without the kids. If role’s were reversed, I would never do that, what a joke.
She doesn’t even realize (or cares) how unattractive she sounds. W’s hurting; she’s having a tough time. But, come on! I didn’t reply to vm. W initiates contact 95% of the time, I respond about 60% of the time, mainly if it’s kid related but this doesn’t apply. I’ve talked to the kids a lot over the last couple days about proper behavior. I can try to teach them right from wrong when I am around them. When W has them, that’s her choice.
