Suppo: Im very glad you can answer that way. I feel the same way although I dont know if anything like that is going on with mine, and like you were before, I dont wanna find out right now. What I do know is that she told some people at our church some things that simply weren't true about why she hasn't been there as it relates to me, and im also starting to believe that it may be true that she's going to file in another few weeks when my election is over.
But as much as it is upsetting me, the truth is at least today my plan is to love her through it. It may be a pretty nasty fight, especially when she finds out it will be another 15 months before she can get a divorce if I fight it, and thats going to cause her to do and say some nasty things im sure, but I intend to love her anyway. I've got an email written out to her that she may or may not ever see....depends on whether or not she files, if she does then i'll send it and if she doesn't I won't but the gist of it is that I love her, I intend to stand for our marriage, but I will not allow any more lies period. She can be honest with me, with our boys and with others or I will be its her choice.
Glad to see your handling things.....your in my prayers, as are your kids. Be strong for them and be the incredible example of how Christians deal with adversity and in the long run you'll come out on top no matter what.
