And one other thing.....My son learned a thing at his church camp a few years back where one person would say 'God is good...and everyone else would answer back 'all the time'. I sat with my preacher almost 3 months ago in tears because I honestly couldnt make those words come out of my mouth and it scared me beyond belief, I was told then and still beleive that we're allowed and its ok to question God.....but as much as I hate whats going on in my life right now I can tell you unequivocally that God is good all the time.