Thanks Say. I guess he is an OM.. I mean technically.. we're still married though separated. Funny that I don't really think of him that way though. I don't see him as in the way.
I guess I'm more disappointed because when we split STBX was all about self-help, counseling, etc... before getting into another R. And she really could benefit from those things. If not for our M then just for her own mental health and her relationship with the kids. But of course none of that has happened... and that saddens me.
Life will play its course...
Married 6 together 8 Me:38 W:31 second marriage for both SS12, SD10, S6 Bomb: 9/8/11 (day before our 5 yr ann) W moved out: 2/18/12 D final: 11/12/12 Share S 50/50. Spend as much time as I can with SS & SD