I don't know if this is a positive or negative. He really is talking to me more and more. He is still not sharing everything, still not initiating much contact (did tonight when he locked his keys in our truck and needed help with who we have for roads I assistance) but he is talking to me and not just blowing me off.
He has also been using the joint account to spend money...not much, all within reason, but he usually uses his credit card, because I am not on it/can't see it, so I can't gripe about him spending money. Is this a test? I didn't say a word when I saw the charges, just continues on my merry way.
Should I keep talking to him? Should I stop? I don't know what's is thinking nor what to do. I wanted to tell him at October 19-21 I will be out of town so need him to watch dogs, but I feel like that would be pressure on him, by telling him I summit going anywhere and making him think 'R' issues, things which my cach told me to avoid since it is not a safe topic. That said, I still don't know what is going to happen when I get home. He has not brought up any R talk at all, but has continued to chit chat with me about finances, dogs, guns, hunting, college football etc.
Thoughts?
Me- 29 H - 36 T - 5y M - 2y D - 11 months BD#1 June 2013 BD#2 H files 10/28/13 Retrouvaille Nov 13 BD #3 H Files 2nd time 4/22/14 Fires L 7 days later. No court dates set Supposedly he's moving out?
