RH, I haven't had a chance to read up on your thread, but will do so soon. I am sorry your H is still pushing for a D. He truly is confused in his mind. There is no doubt he still loves you, but maybe he needs to prove himself wrong about what will bring him happiness.
I think he needs to understand that you are not going to be sitting at home waiting for him to figure his crap out. YOU are going on with your life, with or without him. He is not the only one with choices.
Lots of hugs (and tissues!) your way!
Gal, hope you are staying strong over there across the ocean. Feel free to post on my thread - I always look forward to hearing from you!
We need a LBS girls getaway - lots of wine, and no aliens!
Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me
~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."