Sun-I agree with you about not talking on the phone. I put everything in email a couple years ago. I also had my X refuse to communicate with email in the beginning, but I emailed and told him that is how I was going to communicate. I kept at it; he would not email me back in the very beginning, just read them, but after a short while with me continuing to email, then he began responding to them also. He had told me he would not read my emails in the beginning, but I feel that I did my part communicating with him and if he chose not to read them then that was his choice. It is a better way to communicate, and it has been useful when we go to court also.
