Tomorrow is a New Day

[mamabird]

Well girlfriend, I just went to my 20th. Actually, that's where my H discovered my "sexting" and he actually flew home in the middle of the reunion leaving me in upstate NY with my 2 kids. Not classy behavior on either one of our parts.

I had a great time other than that! You should go, and just let everyone know your H is home with D16. You let him know ASAP you're going. Put it in writing - but you're a lawyer, you know that! You owe it to yourself to go if you can make it work. Have fun, GAL!

Sorry that things are so rough with him at the moment. He definitely sounds like MLC to me and maybe you should try detaching. Being nice hasn't seemed to have helped, so maybe try something different. I know that's very, very tough. But you are at a breaking point with him. I would re-read the section in DR and see if that helps.

Hugs!