Hi Mrs D,
hope you had fun on the boat today. Great way to spend the last unofficial day of summer.

I do go to IC once a week. My H makes fun of me because 3x a month I skype w my therapist, and once a month I see him locally. Who cares. I like him and he's helping me.

My H also goes to IC but he's still being a _____ (use your imagination, anything will do) so who knows if that's working for him. But, we can only work on ourselves, and if they don't get it, then they are the ones missing out. Not us.

Some random told me I looked "fine" the other day... I usually do not get hit on so that was a very nice ego boost, esp since I was just walking along minding my own business. I keep that with me when I get a little down about my sitch. There will be life after H, if we end up getting to that point.


Me54, H53
M 23, T 25
S20, S18
BD: April 2024
Moved out: August 2024

Love means not giving up on someone even if they've given up on you.

"Being right is the booby prize of life." - Susan Page