Thanks for stopping by snodderly. The woman who my h refuses to name has been working with my h for several years. He sent baby gifts when d2 was born.

Last year just after the bomb I visited h at work with the girls - he invited us. The ow couldn't look me in the eye. I knew then. Only my h and ow believe it was not an affair last MaY because they were not physical everyone else knows it was inappropriate then too.

The reason I am not too upset is not a noble reason. I kind of feel like now this validates that I am right and he is wrong. I know this line of thinking is a trap.

But for now, atleast the next few days I am gonna live in the glory that this is more about him getting laid then me being a b!Tchy wife. The truth lies somewhere in-between - I will get there; ever so slowly.


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M 39
H 35
D5,D4
M 4
T 9
ILYBNILWY 5/18/11
Left 7/11/11
Divorced 12/1/13