Thanks for stopping by snodderly. The woman who my h refuses to name has been working with my h for several years. He sent baby gifts when d2 was born.
Last year just after the bomb I visited h at work with the girls - he invited us. The ow couldn't look me in the eye. I knew then. Only my h and ow believe it was not an affair last MaY because they were not physical everyone else knows it was inappropriate then too.
The reason I am not too upset is not a noble reason. I kind of feel like now this validates that I am right and he is wrong. I know this line of thinking is a trap.
But for now, atleast the next few days I am gonna live in the glory that this is more about him getting laid then me being a b!Tchy wife. The truth lies somewhere in-between - I will get there; ever so slowly.
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13