Being Me, I have been reading this and I agree with Snodderly 100%. You are kidding yourself if you think your H is going to live by the terms you quoted. I know he sounds very agreeable RIGHT NOW, but he's a master manipulator and this thing hasn't even begun to play out yet. Being Me, you don't want this divorce, I'm not putting you down by saying it, I'm just trying to make this point. If I know you don't want it, he does too. He will play that on you. I will be totally surprised if you don't hear from him in the next week or so. He will dangle a reconciliation at you, and he will play on some other things to keep you in the drama. He's very safe and comfy in this arrangement he has had for all these years and he won't be so easy to get to leave it. Just be very mindful of what I have told you..........
