Now at least you have the information....what will you do with it? You said you forgive, you said you will love her, and im certainly not trying to talk you out of that, but is that really how you feel? I hope it is.
Thanks Carnac!
Yes, believe it or not this is truly how I feel (I do Forgive her & it lifts a huge wait off my shoulders). I know that you can never push someone into having an A, but I do realize that something was lacking in our M for the last 2 or 3 years that would allow something like this to happen. In DR it is laid out plain & simple on the different reasons why spouses stray, and I can definitely relate to why she may have gone down that route, based on what was missing etc. at the home front from me. It [censored], but I can understand! Trust me, I in no way condone what she is doing & yes it does hurt. But most likely if I had been the Husband/Man that I needed to be during my dark era, then this probably wouldn't have happened. This does not by no means make her an Evil person, it makes her human! We all make mistakes & some mistakes are "Bigger" than other.
I could sit here & speculate forever on why/how/what/when/where. But in actuality, it is what it is. Now is time to continue on with my plan of becoming the better option, bettering myself, & being the best Damn Father that my wonderful kids could ever ask for.
