Tomorrow is a New Day

[mamabird]

You and I have the same dynamics in our Rs. I also want to get it out in the open, deal with it and move on and H wants to hold a grudge. I can't see the positive in that but that's who we chose. Is H holding a grudge against you for any reason?

MWD's advice is NOT to say ILY. I know it feels natural to say it but it's part of backing off not to. I would also let him come to you for any kiss goodbye. I know I want to baby my H right now but I think it's part of pursuing.

I would just keep responding positively to any gestures he makes towards you but try not to be the initiator.