I've been thinking about what happened to you and although I'm glad that you managed to be who you wanted to be for that moment, I don't know that it's who I want/can be for that moment if/when it occurs. In fact, I asked the following question in my thread to get ready for this kind of situation which is a huge possibility in the upcoming months becaue I'm starting to move into the music scene here and W and OM are both musicians (he's a drummer).
4. OM is not on my mind at all. I have been able to totally forget about him (or at least chase any thought of him that comes to mind). As I am starting to find my way through the music scene in this city, it seems very likely I would bump into him, either with or without W (as just happened with Suppo). How should I behave when/if I do? Does this change if he's with W? Does this change if I'm with D8?
I wouldn't mind hearing your thoughts on this (and the other questions on my thread for that matter) because I need different perspectives right now.
Thanks mate!
Freshman Class of 2012
M-49 W-42 1D-10 T 10 YEARS M 9 YEARS EA/MLC 07/2010 Separation 28/05/2012 PA confirmed 31/07/12 W Asked for D 31/07/12 D on and off the table since then