I think I've been going about this the wrong way. I've had too much contact with her. She seems to be using it to her advantage. Cake eating. So I'm going black and doing what I need to do with the kids and such and not having anymore contact with her.

I'm doing what I have to do to get the legal separation done speedily, but fairly. If I have to ask her anything then it will be text or very brief conversation.


Me:42
W:43
M:03/08/98
SD17, D13
Found out about affair:12/16/10
Found out again: 06/22/12
Split: 06/22/12