It's my gut feeling as well, just need to be patient and let him come to the same conclusion.
The trust issues stem from me threatening to leave twice, actually having left once, he doesn't want to risk being 'left' a third time.
Mine seems like such a different sitch than most on here - with me being the WAW who wants to go "home". You said your wife was in same position as my H awhile back too...do you mind me asking what got in the way??
