Thanks KML, have you been talking to my mother in law
moving on with my life- and that could be enjoying the company of a friend- he doesn't have to know its a female friend, or a long term work acquaintance.. I don't want to really date or put myself into a physical relationship... but I know what you are saying.. I do need to get our more and pick up new hobbies and just do things that I enjoy... period...
Just take a break on this decision making on the marriage... he obviously doesn't want a divorce.. but isn't ready to be without this other woman either.. so its like being stuck in limbo and i have to make the decision or choose to ignore it and do my own thing...
its definitely confusing..
M-28 H-28 M-9 1/2 years T- 12 years PA- 01/02/12 (still going on)