If you are anything like the man you are on this site, mate, I'm sure he was intimidated with what he saw, pants or no pants. I'm sure that your wife is probably doing a lot of thinking as well now. It's one thing to do it in hiding but once it's in the open, it loses some excitement, especially after seeing her kids' disapproving faces.
Keep the faith man.
I feel good about the way I handled it. No drama, shook the guys hand, sincerely told him that he has a great woman & to not hurt her...So if she told him I was a prick & A$$hole, then he definitely didn't see what she most likely made me out to be.
Kids are still in shock, angry, hurt, etc...Not worried about myself, as I knew this was coming one day anyway...Have to remain positive & strong for my babies because they are truly blessings that shouldn't have to go through this kind of pain.
God has a plan, and if I stay steadfast, then he will eventually reveal it to me. I have actually already forgiven her in my heart & mind...I have basically chalked it up thus far to really bad decisions. Hopefully she will see sooner rather than later that I am the better choice...But if it ends up being later, then I am in it for the long haul...Plus I have no desire to go out and find somebody else anyway...LoL
Not sure if she is thinking about it or not, I would like to think she is...But like Denver & Starsky says: They are in a FOG & are enjoying that FOG, no matter who gets run over by the ship coming in during the process.
I will keep the Faith & truly am thankful for folks such as all of you on here that are supportive & still truly believe in the sanctity of M.
