I wonder if worry about the A is such a bad thing. I mean if they are having an A it does not mean much- only that they are not working on themselves like they should and are not very confident in their own sitch. The chance of the A moving into any thing else is very rare usually burns out in 6 months. I say that but I am in the same boat and do not always feel this way. I feel that if she is in an A that that will only make things last a lot longer because she is not working on herself and GAL. I think if you are not strong enough to handle it yet it is best to brush it under the table for now but you will have to adress it sooner than you think.. as it will keep coming up in your thoughts.
