B, I'm sorry he wasn't around for your d's birthday yesterday. Hopefully he will be there next weekend for the party.
Yes, the truth is slowly coming out. He has advised you that he's seeing someone...but I suspect the ow has been in the picture for a long time and he's been seeing her all along. He just felt the time had come to "out the situation". You may be feeling a little bit numb since you aren't feeling happy or terrible at the moment. I'm very sorry he did this just before the holiday and your d's birthday.
Yes, it is a very sad situation. He had it all and yet, he's got this need to seek out what he thinks he missed out on as a child/teenager.
Please take care of yourself and your little one. I do hope that the rest of the weekend is quiet and yet pleasant for you and your d.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
