But wanted to sahre that W's boss was recently fired for stealing money, fraud, inappropriate behavior, and lying. Added bonus: he was supporting at least one long term mistress using company funds. He was also "grooming" a very young staff member with trips alone and gifts. It's suspected he was forced from his last position for similar reasons.
None of this, except the many gifts and over the top attention, involved my W.
So I was right about him. Maybe right to be concerned about him being my W's boss. But there was no A.
SL
SL,
When you first came to this forum, in Dec 2010, you said your wife was having an affair with someone at work. Was it not this man?
If this guy was fired for doing all of these things, and he also gave your wife "many gifts and over-the-top attention," I wouldn't be so sure that the two of them didn't do more. Regardless, I'm concerned you guys are trying to go this alone without any MCing -- preferably with a GOOD mc/ft who specializes in dealing with infidelity. Considering your wife's past behavior, and your struggle to deal with it, I really think the two of you could use some professional help with your reconciliation.
Starsky
P.S. I thought your wife found your posts, and you weren't going to post here anymore???
