oh my goodness SS. I can't believe he actually invited you on a "date." He really does see the sand running through his fingers. He is losing you as we speak and he knows it but can't take that definitive step towards R.

It must've been so hard to say no to him but at the same time it was very courageous of you to do so! Stay strong my friend. I will be keeping you in my prayers also!


M 42 H 39
T10 (-2yrs separation)
S8 D5
DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA)
Reconciled 6/2013
Separation in works 1/2017