I told them almost exactly what you stated, although they still didn't understand. i have made mistakes & it is not for me to Judge! That is for God to Judge & him only.
I do love her very much, but this where I beat myself up on what I did to contribute to why she felt the need to fill the void of what I wasn't giving her. I definitely don't need to go down that Rabbit hole, but who knows anything when these situations present themselves?
On another note: If the kids weren't with me, then I would have definitely been shopping with my pants off. Of course that would have caused more problems, cause he would have been intimidated with what he saw...loL
