Yeah, it's something that D8 doesn't know yet. She's met OM a few times but she thinks he's just a friend at this point. As far as why you would choose to be With her after this?
You could tell them that you love their mother very much and that you have made mistakes as well. Everyone does. You can tell them that there is nothing more important for you than to save their/your family and that their mom might just need some time to think things over. Tell them it takes a strong person to forgive and keep on fighting for what they believe. It's so much easier to walk away when things get tough. Tell them that you all need to be brave and patient right now and that their mother needs your love as difficult as it may be.
Not easy mate but on the bright side, It's a good thing this wasn't one of the days your were shopping in Walmart without your pants on.
Keep the PMA mate.
Freshman Class of 2012
M-49 W-42 1D-10 T 10 YEARS M 9 YEARS EA/MLC 07/2010 Separation 28/05/2012 PA confirmed 31/07/12 W Asked for D 31/07/12 D on and off the table since then