Thank you so much for your thoughts & posts! I think kids & I handled it really well all things considered. Never wanted to involve them more through the pain than they already were. Welcome home from 2 weeks on the road is all I can say!
I had my speculation & was always ready (at least I thought) for this, but I never wanted to admit it! I guess I really don't know here as well as i do, but in the end I had a lot to do with her looking elsewhere for what she was missing in our M.
Guy was scared to death when I approached him, but who knows the circumstances. Not sure if she ever knew she was still married or if she told him full life details (i.e. kids, still married, etc.). But one will never know & to mind read & speculate would just drive me into a black hole!
The gist of it is: It is what it is!
I told kids I still Love her & that if she saw the damage of her decisions, that I would be willing to work it out with her & spend the rest of my life with her. My kids looked at me Stargazed & said why would you ever want to be with her now & why are you being so calm about this Daddy??
Ouch, How do you respond to 2 kids who look up to you & Love you so much. i want to set a great example & let them know that I don't condone it, but don't want to be a blatant jerk either.
i have had such a positive & great PMA for too long, I figured it was too good to last!
Such is life guys! Long live the Freshman class of 2012!
