Thank you KD. So if Im reading this correctly, I shouldnt be NCing but just detaching. And I need to continue to make myself more available and open as I have been doing here and there to start rebuilding our relationship? I agree that I think the little things I have been doing here and there are making him think more of me.
Take for instance last night. He called three times. Mind you the first two calls I missed and I picked up in the third. He said he called to talk to our son. He knew darn well I was at the concert because we spoke of it the night before. And he actually brought the concert up in conversation. AND he probably looked on the gps to see where I was. Either way, he knew. Also. Im sure he called when he was on his way to the GF house cause he doesnt make contact when hes with her. I think I was totally on his mind. Also. He was home when we drove by going to a football game. She wasnt there. Wouldnt you think if calling C last night was a priority last night, and he didnt get to talk to him, that he would maybe call today? He hasnt.
Maybe I am looking into something that isnt anything, but this is my thought process right now.
Any hoo.. lmk if my thought process to what you had posted is what you were stating. Thank you! !!
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