Thanks y'all. Such good advice. I am much calmer today. I suppose it was the suddenness of my friend calling him, then him calling me. It was unexpected. All I was doing was informing my friend that H and I are definitely getting that divorce, and that I want to move on. And, she (just like the person she is) says, "well, I know a guy who's lonely and shy too, yadda yadda yadda." Oh, I don't think this is THE one (as you say, Beatrice, is there such a thing?). I hope to gain a friend who is single, at least. All my friends are married.

Talking about "the one" ... I thought my H was the one from the moment I met him ... 27 years later, I still think he's the love of my life, but he doesn't think that about me (not that he's said so, but actions do speak louder than words). Ah well, who knows what the future holds?! Maybe I'll have a love of my old age life. Hahaha!


Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
D35,S/D twins28,D22
EA4/04 End? Who knows?
"Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim