X demands full custody because I'm now engaged

[sleeper]

I have a question, Reincarnated,

Is keeping it to writing to:
1) Avoid direct contact (verbal and physical).
2) Generate documentation (X would never write anything incriminatinating, if anything would attempt to incriminate me be making references to actions and words that never happened).

I totally understand the weird blended family fantasy they have. Fiancée says Im basically a glorified babysitter to X. I became Superdad when we separated to mitigate the pain and abandonment the kids suffered. I decided early on I'd rather they be with me than a babysitter. I know this played well into X's hyper cake eating behavior but it was about the kids as far as I was concerned.

Funny thing is I've been dating fiancée for three years. My kids always want to go to her house. Except for not living together its like we're already married as far as time kids spend with fiancée and hers. It makes no sense. I'm sure a judge would see that (among other things).