Yeah, that's what hurts the most in this whole business. I know that until very recently, there had never been a doubt in my mind that I wouldn't give up on our family, not ever in our entire marriage. I would have hoped that this family was as important to W as it is to me. Then again, I might have left too if I'd been married to me.
Great posts my friends!!
Way too hard on yourself Brother! You could have done everything perfect in the eyes of her & she still may have left. You don't know, and for you to speculate things like this, is way to downing on yourself.
You have admitted your mistakes & you know what you need to work on. Once you are where you feel comfortable with yourself & where you feel you need to be is all that matters. If she wants to come back and ride on the new highspeed Arsene1000 bullet train, with plush new carpet & leather seats, then she can buy a ticket! If she doesn't, then that will be her loss, because she would have missed out on the greatest ride of her life into the future!
