Never feel like a sucker for loving your wife. But if that is true and she is with OM and the family and under their support. I would be on plan D. As that is a level of disrespect I would not tolerate. As those actions will ruin your relationship with the in-laws. But right now your under hearsay. So do not act in haste. Use this little bitterness and anger to give you some resolve to move forward in your life. And use this to steady yourself when you want to do something silly like go all mushy or lash out in anger.
The aspect you will see now is that she will come back at you with some dictation of what your going to do. As this will have built her confidence. So just ride it out and carry on with your planned response and then put the phone down again for 4 to 6 hours and get a little gal in. Its sunny and enjoy family and friends.
No matter what. Be a gentleman.
Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul. unconditional love is awesome!
