She said it made her question if she's honoring her vows. She said that because I wasn't honoring mine by cherishing and loving her the way she needed and neglecting the family unit, she could no longer honor hers.
Wow, I gotta say, that's a new one on me! I've seen (I thought) every kind of blameshifting here on this forum, for years, but this is probably the most blatant, direct example I've ever heard from a wayward.