talking into a vacuum I know...but take a look back at all your communication. You write in terms of emotions yours, what you think is hers, you talk about your hurt and anger, she talks logistics.
You're trying to provoke a reaction from her. She's learned not to get drawn into these convos with you and so you keep trying to again make her do something: apologise? admit she was wrong? pay you for the house, the credit card bills, the rings, the filing fee.
here some hard truths NO EMAIL YOU SEND HER WILL MAKE HER DO THOSE THINGS.